Some things are just outside of our immediate control. We all have parts in our lives that we wish to change suddenly but unfortunately, that's just not the way it works. Even when immediate action is taken, the finished results loom. So what do you do in between the thought to change and the result of change? Wait patiently and observe the process. Have you ever heard that things easily acquired are easier to lose? People tend to be more grateful when they strive to achieve a goal that work and sweat has been put into versus those who operate on a quick fix kind of schedule. Think of those who go on crash diets. Once the weight is gone, it usually gets regained in a matter of weeks. On the other hand, when someone changes their life style and creates healthy habits, the change usually last much longer, if not indefinitely.
So if you're currently working on making changes within your life, please do not rush the process but allow the reward of change to still you. Gradual change is better than no change at all.